1. 个性 disposition
2. 乖僻 peculiarity
3. 单独 individualism
4. 野心 ambition
5. 猜忌 skeptical/envy/suspicious
6. 自卑 self-contempt
7. 骄傲 arrogance/pride
8. 怪癖 eccentricity
9. 面子 face
10. 心胸狭隘 narrow-minded
11. 贪爱钱财 love of money
12. 固有观念 stubborn/old concepts
13. 各种欲望 various desires
14. 自我为中心 egocentric
15. 自顾 self-caring
16. 着迷 obsession
17. 为家人 for the family
18. 恋地位 love of status/position
19. 饮食习惯 eating habits
20. 生活保障 safeguard/security of living
21. 地区差异 regional difference
22. 文化差异 cultural difference
23. 意见主张 opinion and assertion
24. 思维方式 way of thinking
25. 彼此不珍赏 mutual depreciation
26. 依靠经验 reliance on experience
27. 训练背景 training background
28. 口味选择 choice of taste
29. 天然爱好 natural hobby
30. 夫妻枕头风 influence/pressure from spouse (pillow wind)
31. 裙带关系 nepotism
32. 没有相同的爱 not having the same love
33. 天然的爱 natural love
34. 嫉妒 jealousy
35. 固执 obstinacy
36. 看自己比别人强 regarding oneself more excellent than others
37. 看自己过于所当看的 think highly of oneself
38. 不服输 not willing to admit defeat
39. 接受不了别人的批评 unable to take criticism
40. 同辈相妒、不服 strife and rivalry between contemporaries
41. 看见不同，目标不同 not seeing the same goal, different vision
42. 轻看自己 looking down on oneself
43. 摆上不同 different consecration
44. 不顺服、不服权柄 not submitting, not obeying authority
45. 不肯吃亏 not willing to suffer loss
46. 蜜与酵 honey and leaven
47. 缺少交通 lack of fellowship
48. 怕得罪人 being afraid to offend others
49. 隔墙拉手 holding hand over the fences
50. 老资格 seniority
51. 不知界限 not knowing boundaries
52. 太讲究等次、没有等次 taking too seriously of order; not having order
53. 看见需要，但不会替别人补上 seeing the need, but not willing to fill in for others
54. 不会随时准备好填空 not constantly on duty to fill in
55. 真理不清楚 unclear about the truths
56. 没有负担 no burden
57. 不肯出代价 not willing to pay the price
58. 只顾自己的利益 caring about one’s interest alone
59. 越位 stepping over one’s position
60. 喜欢单独做事 like to do things alone
61. 不肯背十字架 not willing to bear the cross
62. 不肯否认己 not willing to deny self
63. 不肯受委屈 cannot be wronged
64. 不迁就别人 not accommodating others
65. 不尊重别人 not respecting others
66. 喜欢批评 like to criticize
67. 没有榜样 not setting a pattern
68. 见风使舵 fickle mind (sail with the wind)
69. 避难就易 avoiding difficulty and leaning toward easiness
70. 政治手腕 political stratagem
71. 明哲保身 playing safe by self-reservation
72. 做事方法不同 doing things differently
73. 懒惰 lazy
74. 不敞开 not open
75. 没有责任心 irresponsible
76. 意志强弱 weak will
77. 幸灾乐祸 Rejoice in the calamity of others
78. 自我利益 Self gain
79. 生命幼稚 Lacking life (naive)
80. 不能赦免和忘记 Not forgiving and forgetting
81. 讨人的喜欢 Pleasing men (Galatians 1:10)
82. 不健康的跟随人 Following man in an unhealthy way
83. 虚荣心 Vain glory
84. 自义 Self righteous
85. 好为首 Like to be first (John III 1:9)
86. 家长制 Patriarchal behavior
87. 好为人师 Like to lecture people
88. 跟随人 Following others
89. 明哲保身 Playing safe by self-reservation
90. 一言堂 Rule by the voice of one man alone （one man’s house)
91. 不赦免 Not forgiving
92. 不忘记 Not forgetting
93. 家人影响 Family influence
94. 不迁就 Not accommodating
95. 不能受委屈 Cannot be wronged
96. 怕得罪人 Being afraid to offend someone
97. 风俗习惯 Customs
98. 爱得荣耀 Love to gain glory
99. 喜欢得夸奖 Love to be praised
100. 太主观 too subjective
